Becoming Brilliant!

Facing Forward

Its official. The "economic crisis" has come to my home town of Beacon, NY. In, "A Town Reborn Faces a New Threat", The New York Times reports that business is dwindling and shops are closing. This sucks. I love my town, and I want it to thrive. No one seems to know what the next move is. We're in the dark here, as towns are all across America, and around the world.

It seems like a really bad and scary thing. Particularly since the institutions that have illuminated our lives for so long-like banks and schools and the government-admit to being just as stumped as we are. There appears to be very little light at the end of the tunnel.

What we're seeing (or not seeing), though,  may be more a function of the direction we're facing than of the problems themselves. In the throws of these unprecedented challenges, it no longer works to face backward, to practice historical thinking. We're experiencing a discontinuity, where our returns are diminishing, even as we put more and more energy into our existing systems. We've reached a place, pretty much across the board, where the old ways of doing things no longer work, and the new ways of doing things haven't shown up yet. Some call it "the void", a good name I think, and it's a tough place to be, especially with kids to feed and a mortgage to pay.

I'd to wave a magic wand and make it all better. But since this is unlikely, my next question is, how can we reposition ourselves to respond in new ways? How can we use the darkness to our advantage, and how can we use uncertainty as the energy to ignite our success?

Let's start by turning  to face forward. Let's assume that our answers lie ahead, in the direction of where we want to go. What we need now is innovation on a Copernican scale,  ideas that rock our world and change everything. Quantum ideas. They need not be big, but they must be powerful. Let's start with a whopper:

We have everything we need.

And another:

There's enough to go around.

Now, quick, before you get all rational on me, try this. Make a list of all the things that could and would change in your community, beginning now, if everyone believed these statements to be true. Include everything you can think of, regardless of whether it's "practical" or not.

Now make a list of things that you could do personally, however small, to reflect your belief in these statements. How would you behave differently, and how would your behavior benefit not only you, but your community as well? Maybe you'd leave a bigger tip for the waitress at the diner. That would sure make her day. Or share an idea for a joint marketing plan with your fellow store owners.

Last, but not least, make a list of no more than three things you will commit to doing in the next week that reflect these statements. Is that light I see over yonder? Yep, keep going!

"If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got."
                                                                  - American Proverb

Seems like awful folksy wisdom for such a big void and such high-tech problems. But think about it. As we turn to face the future, toward uncertainty-and therefore toward possibility-we have so much more to work with. As community development expert, Peter Block, says, we want desperately to take the uncertainty out of the future. But when we take the uncertainty out, all we have is the present projected forward. And none of us wants more of what we've got now; that we know for sure.

I want my dear town to bustle with robust businesses and happy, productive citizens, who welcome brisk  trade to our many shops, galleries and restaurants. I want to contribute to my community in joyful ways knowing that I'm cared for by those around me.

When I turn to the past, I see an old manufacturing town taking one step forward and two steps back. When I face the future I have the choice of what to envision, and a choice of how to participate in creating whatever is necessary to make that vision a reality. It's not magic, and it's not rocket science. It's a matter of being bold enough to imagine the light, and then stepping toward it, one choice at a time.

An idea

What if our new administration created a "happiness stimulus package"? While this may do down with Dennis Kucinich's department of peace as one of the least likely things to happen, just humor me for a minute. What would it look like? What stimulates happiness? How can you create your own happiness stimulus package? What could you do, starting this minute, that would cause you, your friends, family and utter strangers, to be happier? Now ramp it up a notch and think about an international happiness plan. I wonder...

Let's not talk about Obama

Everyone else has that covered today. Let's talk about us: We the People.

Look at what we did, folks, you and me, all of us, standing together for something fresh and radical and scary and hopeful.

Today is a good day to be proud. For my part, I think it's the first time I can remember actually feeling proud to be an American. I feel proud to be human today, too, and proud to have cast my vote for a future that promises to be profoundly different, and dare I say better, than today.

So where do we go from here? Our Brilliant future depends upon our willingness to consciously choose to live into our highest values, like choosing compassion and kindness when all we want to say is, "See, I told you Palin was a jerk!"

A lot of people are scared today. They're not sure what's coming; but they're damned sure it isn't the status quo. Let's listen to their stories, and help guide the conversation to what we share, what heals, what feels good, what gives us hope. When fear is rampant, let's choose love. When conflict arises, let's calmly hold space for all voices to be heard and for all needs to be met.

The President-elect made it abundantly clear last night that he is prepared to do these things. So let's help him out, you and me, in big and small ways. He's even provided us with a handy mantra, one that seems to work even in the worst of times.

So repeat after me, everybody, say "Yes, we can!" Together, we can create a future of which  each and every one of us-republican and democrat, rich and poor, black and white, young and old, straight and gay...every last one of us- will be proud.

What to Choose?

I Want to Change the World

 

Ido, I do! I want everyone to live peacefully, to have enough to eat, to respect each other, to find joy. And here's what I've learned about what I want:

The best way - in fact the only way - to create profound transformation in the world is to begin with myself, now, in this moment. There's no place else to begin. This is where I have leverage.

Yes, I can hold a vision for something more. Yes, I can take steps in the now to work toward my vision. But until I align with my Brilliance, my source, I'm pushing against the current.

As counter-intuitive as it may seem, my greatest power to affect change lies in the space between the doing. It lies in my being.

Were do I find this space? I start with my breath.

Try this:

Set aside five minutes to site quietly, close your eyes and notice your breath. When your mind wanders, invite it back  with kindness and hospitality. No matter how experienced you are on your path, this is always a great place to go. It's huge inside you. So much space for possibility, so much potential to allow your choices to emerge from a place of wisdom and alignment.

Check out this talk about gay rights, diversity and social change from Esther Hicks and Abraham. Regardless of your belief system, or how you feel about the source of the information, the information itself is magnificent.

Also, read Start Where You Are, and other books by Pema Chodron.